A Psalm of Remembrance During my Daughters Birth & My First Moments with Her
By Sarah Rios
The moment my daughter was born by cesarean and not breathing.
His love and peace sustained me.
When the pediatrician brought her back in the room- breathing.
His love and peace sustained me.
As the surgeons had to reopen my stomach to find a bleed.
His love and peace sustained me.
Waiting for our daughter to be brought to us.
His love and peace sustained us.
Alone, with my daughter- surrounded by other new moms and babies.
His love and peace sustained us.
At home- with husband, toddler, baby and postpartum anxiety.
His love and peace sustained us.
Two + years later- with a healthy daughter, son, husband, and SELF.
His love and peace continues to sustain me.
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